I told myself I wouldn't do this. I hate it when people post up omg my lief is so horrible because of this ans this and I am going to indirectly bitch at this person because I dont have the balls to say it to their face. Well, what can I say- I guess I'm a hypocrit.
I have been on this site for what, almost 4 years now? When I started out Antonio had just left me, I was angry, but then everyone got to see my life change with a new boyfriend, a new love- Brandon. I even changed my profile name to the nickname he had given me. Can't explain really how happy I was, it was wonderful, that blossoming love, new and exciting moments to share with someone, life was good.
You guys also got to see the rough times between us, through my journals and comments and what not. We weren't exactly the happiest couple this past year, me doubting our relationship, wanting to take things to fast- but I guess near the end I created myself a false little neverland where I pictured us happy.
I was wrong, Brandon wasn't happy.
I don't blame him- I am not even angry with him, how can you be angry with someone who did nothing wrong to you? Someone who would try and make you smile no matter the circumstance. Honestly, how can you be angry with a jester? He believed I was though, all the time- I yelled, I scolded, I glared, I was a brat- I didn't treat him right. I guess I was too use to being the Princess and didn't take his own feelings to account. He also said he was bored with me. All we did was sit on the couch and watch TV and I would fall asleep. This one, I can't agree with. We worked and went to school full time- the both of us- we got to see eachother during the very late night, and whenever we had the day time together either he was over at a friends house, or I was too busy with homework. But I wanted to go out to a club with him, I wanted to go to the movies, I was even going to buy a season pass for snowboarding next year so the two of us would have that excitement together, I wanted him to teach me to play the guitar (which he started, and I got easily frustrated, which couldn't have been very fun for him) but honestly, I don't find that fair. I tried to be exciting, buying outfits and dressing up for him and stuff, so I can't see how I was boring.... Angry yes, but boring no.
I am sad, depressed, gloomy, whatever the hell you want to call it. Thats 3 years of my life, wonderful years of my life, taken away from me and helpless at stopping it. But I can't say I blame him. I just hope he is happy, or at least happier than I could have ever made him.
Its come to the point where I don't see us being together again. I think its real this time, over for good. It sucks, I can't really help it, but I don't even know if I could take him back anymore. It hurts too much to think that he would leave me again- and like I said I want him happy, and I know he is going to find a better princess that will treat him like a knight... though I did prefer the jester
Honestly, it just feels like I screwed up- I'm sorry Brandon, thats all I can say, I am so..... so... sorry.
Love you all, thanks to everyone for their support thus far. I dont think I will be around for a long while, so sorry if I dont get back to your comments or journals or pictures anytime soon, I just have too much on my mind right now.